I have an appointment with my new surgeon as the surgeon who had done my mastectomy three years ago has since retired. I am talking with them to have my other breast removed. Too go totally flat. I am a big lass, 42DD. Since surgery, I have become very withdrawn. Not going out, making excuses. My self confidence has totally gone. I go to work but wear clothes that are too big. I feel so frumpy. I get invited out to things but always say no. Starting to affect my mental well being. Can I ask anyone who had their remain8ng breast removed, what questions did you ask.