I had Bowel Cancer Op in September 2023.  Had some chemo after as fit despite being old (76). Research said survival possibilities 75% at 5 years. First Annual CT scan showed spread to Liver. Possible treatment plan is 2 months aggressive chemo, surgery to remove, more chemo; high probability of survival, but research says 1 year survival at best for my age!

I have a wife of 55 years who has mobility problems and I have sold house (move early December) to locate wife with family for support as no one close to present home. I also need to get my affairs in order - my bad for planning on having 5 years!  I understand this is a 'how long is a piece of string' question, but no one will offer any advice or help on if stopping all treatment now and hoping to just get to the New Year to complete all the above domestic trivia might work?!

I'm mentally prepared for the inevitable, but leaving my wife in the lurch half way through relocation is my big worry.  Any thoughts on where I might get help?

Thanks.