Is it final time?

My mother is a cancer patient from

last 2 year since last few week she become extremely tired her appitite decreased and seems like she is not coping well feel exhausted she is a wheelchair bound but taking her in a wheelchair and back she feel exhausted  she have some chesty cough but nothing coming up  I am so scared and stress and just don’t know what to do 

  • Hello and thanks for posting

    I'm really sorry to read about your mum's condition. It's understandable that you are feeling scared and stressed.

    The symptoms could be related to her cancer, treatment side effects or an infection.

    The GP has overall responsibility for a person's healthcare at home. They can assess your mum and decide what needs to happen next. We have information about support for patients at home  on our website. Macmillan Cancer Support  have further information about this on their website.

    When help with personal care is needed then a social worker can assess for carers to come in and a care package can be arranged.

    The GP can also refer your mum to a Macmillan nurse. Their area of expertise is in the management of cancer symptoms, such as pain and they provide emotional support to the patient and family.

    I hope this reply helps a little. Please get back to us if you need any more information or support.  You may find it helpful to talk things through with one of the nurses on our helpline.  The number to call is Freephone 0808 800 4040 and the lines are open from 9am till 5pm Monday to Friday.

    Kind regards,

    Celene