Is this normal?

Hello, I’m 8 months post treatment for cervical cancer. I’m struggling with fatigue but have been advised that after treatment and going through the menopause it’s likely a combination of these two things are causing the fatigue. It’s hard trying to been mum and run a house, unfortunately I’ve been signed off work for the moment as I just couldn’t cope. I’m lucky that I haven’t had other side effects from treatment/menopause but I am struggling with fear. I’m struggling with personal care ie showering, washing my hair, even getting dressed makes me fearful. I become frightened when I have to get out of bed in the morning. I’m also finding it difficult to do laundry. I become so anxious before I have to do these tasks and seeing this written down I think why am I so frightened. The only thing I can think of is that when I was going through treatment I struggled to do these tasks. I was so exhausted that sometimes it was the only thing I could do and have to rest up after attempting these tasks. Is this normal what I’m experiencing? Thank you for taking time to read over my post. 

  • Hello and thanks for posting

    I'm sorry you are going through this difficult time. It's completely understandable to feel overwhelmed and fearful after such a challenging experience with your cervical cancer treatment and the menopause.

    Fatigue and anxiety can be common side effects. Your body has been through a lot and you need time to recover. Hormonal changes from the menopause can also cause fatigue and fear. It can impact on doing the every day tasks you mention. Your brain might now associate them with those difficult times contributing to the fear and anxiety you still experience.

    Do talk to your healthcare team about your fatigue and how you are feeling. They can check if there are any other medical reasons for your fatigue and suggest treatments or support therapies to help cope with your emotions.

    We have some information on our website about fatigue and tips on how to manage it. We also have a section on mental health and cancer and it includes information on where to get support which I hope is useful.

    I hope this reply helps a little. Please get back to us if you need any more information or support.  You may find it helpful to talk things through with one of the nurses on our helpline.  The number to call is Freephone 0808 800 4040 and the lines are open from 9am till 5pm Monday to Friday.

    Best wishes,

    Celene