Hi Sal and thank you for your post.

I'm sorry to read about your situation.  It does sound like this is a difficult time for you.

People often experience a whole range of emotions when they have cancer. There’s really no right or wrong way to feel. But we know that talking can often relieve some of the distress and anxiety.  There's some useful advice on Macmillan  Cancer Support's website  on how to cope.

We also have some information on our website about cancer and emotions and tips for ways of coping which may find helpful. 

Some people find counselling useful. It may be possible for you to receive NHS. counselling, but how long the waiting list is will vary from area to area. Some GP practices may also offer counselling.

Macmillan Cancer Support have teamed with BUPA to offer free counselling  for cancer patients.  

Maggies centres  have cancer support centres at many hospitals that can help patients during or after treatment. They are a great source of support for patients and can also provide counselling and talking therapy to help patients process what they have been through and help people cope and hopefully move forward.

I hope this helps and you know more about your situation soon.  Please get back to us if you need any more information or support.  You may find it helpful to talk things through with one of the nurses on our helpline.  The number to call is Freephone 0808 800 4040 and the lines are open from 9am till 5pm Monday to Friday.

Kind regards,

Tina