Looking for some advice please

Hello, I’m just looking for some advice or guidance. I’m 6 months post treatment for cervical cancer, treatment given was chemotherapy, radiotherapy and brachytherapy. I have struggled with fatigue since treatment ended along with mental health issues. In March I began a phased return to work and it’s been really hard work to get back into the routine. Two weeks ago I collapsed at work, have had a lot of tests done and all have come back clear thankfully. I’ve spoken with my GP and oncologist, the nurse specialist has referred me to the menopause clinic and GP has started me on another type of HRT. I’ve just moved home and I have a parent who is terminally ill so a lot of stress and upset going on at the moment. 
I’ve been advised that after treatment finishing plus plunging into the menopause it’s a double edged sword and this could be causing the fatigue. I used to jump out of bed in the morning ready to embrace whatever the day brought. I had structure and routine. Now it takes me to climb out of bed and get dressed. I feel awful that I’m letting work down. I feel like a failure that I went back to work and haven’t been able to do my job to the standard I once did. Is it normal 6 months down the line after treatment to feel so exhausted and not been able to work? Any help or advice would be much appreciated right now. Thank you in advance. 

  • Hello Aggie and thanks for your post

    I'm sorry to read what has been happening. It sounds like you are going through a lot especially with the added stress of having a parent who is terminally ill.

    There are many possible causes of fatigue, but the main causes are often due to cancer and its treatments. We have some information on our website about fatigue and tips on how to manage it such as doing a form of gentle exercise, getting enough rest and eating a good diet.

    Fatigue tends to improve over time for most people. It might be a good idea to keep a fatigue diary. This can help you keep a record of how you're feeling, how your energy levels change and can show patterns to your fatigue. This can help you plan your day. It can also highlight which activities make you feel better or worse.

    Many people struggle with their mental health when they have cancer. This can happen at diagnosis, during treatment or once treatment has finished. We have some information on managing your mental health and getting support which you may find useful.

    I hope this is of some use. Give us a ring if you would like to talk things over. The number to call is Freephone 0808 800 4040 and the lines are open from 9am till 5pm Monday to Friday.

    Kind regards,

    Celene