I have been told I have DCIS breast cancer it was early and treatable at end March 24. I was due to have a partial breast removal and then followed by radiotherapy on 2nd May. When I went in for the op the surgeon said the area had got bigger (not necessarily all cancer but possibly swelling - I had recently had another infection in it and been on antibiotics and finished them only a few days before his examination). He then recommended I should have a right breast mastectomy and reconstruction as I would be left with a very small breast and he did not think I would be happy with it. After extensive reading of all the problems associated with a mastectomy followed by reconstruction at the same time, I am very scared. What is the likely percentage of getting any of these problems.I am a young 75 and the thought of having my breast removed and going flat is abhorrent! But I have a low pain threshold and hate needles of any kind, and reading about ongoing nerve problems and severe pain after the operation etc is really scary. My new date is 23rd May and I see the surgeon on the 10th before the op to measure for the implant,I think. My husband and I still work part time in a self employed capacity to cover bills etc so I must be able to work in 4/6 weeks. Will this be possible? I can try and avoid lifting heavy items as my husband can do that for me but it will involve packing and unpacking. I am really nervous about the after problems and wonder how many people get away without too many. It all seems so negative. Except the bit that you wake up with at least some sort of boob! I need some positives if I am to go through this traumatic experience and come out the other side still feeling ok.
I have already had a hip and two knee operations over the past four years - the last knee only being in February this year. I have recovered from that very well, they were all done by the same excellent surgeon over that period of time so I had a lot of confidence in him. , But this operation feels so much bigger making the previous ops feel like a piece of cake! Please give me some assurance that this will turn out well. My previous surgeon knows the breast surgeon doing my op and says he is good and will look after me. But this assurance is not enough, I need more!
Can you help?