Hello Tigerlily_16 and thanks for the post

I am sorry to hear about your partner's mum's situation, this must be difficult for you both.

Unfortunately no one here can say what the matter might be or if she is becoming less well and nearing the end. Usually the GP is in charge of a patients care in the community so it may be useful for your partner to ask to speak with them if they are her next of kin.

If the GP hasn't visited her recently perhaps they can go and assess her to make sure she is kept as comfortable as possible and to rule out anything else that may be going on. If needed the GP can also refer her for more at home care or nursing support as needed.

I hope you both can find out more soon. Please get back to us if you need any more information or support.  You may find it helpful to talk things through with one of the nurses on our helpline.  The number to call is Freephone 0808 800 4040 and the lines are open from 9am till 5pm Monday to Friday.

Best wishes,

Naomi