Urgent Referral

I noticed a lump in my breast a week or so ago and made an appt with the gp to get it checked. 
I have had several investigations of a lump in my armpit over the years that was confirmed as just extra tissue. Sometimes it is tender but I mostly don’t notice it. 
this new lump is nowhere near this and the gp has referred me to urgent breast clinic for checking. I was anxious obviously but what has sent my anxiety through the roof is the referral form she sent, she has ticked the box that says I think it’s likely this patient has cancer.  The lump is about 1.5x 0.5cm, firm and mobile. 
worried 44 year old lady right now who’s every waking thought is consumed by me thinking it’s all over, I have cancer and now I’m feeling niggles and pain in both breasts and convinced it’s already spread. although my constant poking and prodding is probably not helping. I know you don’t have cancer until they tell you but I cannot focus on anything other than she ticked the cancer likely box. 

  • Hi Vickie and thank you for your post

    I am sorry to hear that you have found a breast lump. I do understand how worrying this must be for you. You were right to see your doctor.  As you know it isn't unusual to be sent to the breast clinic to be examined, and other conditions can cause breast changes that are not cancer. I have placed a link to them here.

     It's easier said than done, but don't overthink until you have all the information about what might be going on. Keeping yourself busy and focusing on other things may help pass the time. We  have some information on our website about cancer and emotions and tips for ways of coping which you can read at this link.

    Anxiety UK also have some helpful tips on ways to cope with your fears while you wait for your appointment.

    Please get back to us if you need any more information or support.  You may find it helpful to talk things through with one of the nurses on our helpline.  The number to call is Freephone 0808 800 4040 and the lines are open from 9am till 5pm Monday to Friday.

    Kind regards,

    Tina

  • Thank you for replying and logically I know you are right and I know I need to focus my thoughts elsewhere. 
    I spoke to the booking team earlier and the earliest urgent appt is 18th March! 
    so I have decided to dip into savings and see a consultant privately for any diagnostic tests I need and have an appt on 26/2. I feel fortunate that I can do this and fingers crossed it comes to nothing.