Oesophageal cancer

My husband age 74 began having swallowing problems last November but still ate a whole Christmas lunch and pudding.  Now a few weeks later can only swallow liquids.  GP fast tracked him for an endoscopy.  During two endoscopies they could not pass the scope all the way down but had a third under general anaesthetic and took 10 biopsies.  We were informed he had cancer of the oesophagus but from the CT scan it did not appear to have spread.  A stent was mentioned by an upper GI nurse. That was on the Monday.  On the Thursday he had a phone call from the consultant telling him they had received the result of the PET scan and it showed spread to the liver, pelvis, bone and upper sigmoid.  This was such a shock and for 10 days we have had no contact from anyone, just left to it.  However we have an appointment with the oncologist on Tuesday and I have written a list of questions to ask.  He has lost loads of weight, is very weary, can only swallow liquids.  The dietician recommended food supplements and the GP has prescribed them on the NHS and has put all his medications in liquid form too as he can,t swallow tablets, they get stuck.  I feel confused, scared, This thing has happened so fast.  I have this feeling of dread the whole time.  My daughters are being brilliant, so are my friends. Married 44 years. 

  • Hello and thanks for your post

    I'm so sorry your husband has advanced oesophageal cancer. This must be an incredibly difficult time for you both.

    People often experience a whole range of emotions when they’re diagnosed with cancer. And family and friends often go through similar emotions. There’s really no right or wrong way to feel. But we know that talking can often relieve some of the distress and anxiety. It's good that you have a lot of support.  There's some useful advice on Macmillan Cancer Support's website on talking more openly about cancer and you can look at this by clicking here.

    We have some information on our website about cancer and emotions and tips for ways of coping which you can read at this link.

    It's important that you also look after yourself. Macmillan have information on looking after yourself and how to access support here.

    Your husband may like to have a Macmillan nurse involved in his care. Their area of expertise is in the management of cancer symptoms, such as pain and they provide emotional support to the patient and family. You can read more about their role by clicking here. If he would like to access this service his GP or nurse specialist can refer him.

    I see that you have been in touch with the dietician and your husband has access to nutritional supplements as well as liquid medications. We have some information on our website about nutritional drinks and supplements which you can access at this link.

    Please get back to us if you need any more information or support.  You may find it helpful to talk things through with one of the nurses on our helpline.  The number to call is Freephone 0808 800 4040 and the lines are open from 9am till 5pm Monday to Friday.

    Kind regards,

    Celene