My dad was diagnosed with bowel cancer about 6 months ago .Since then his memory is going downhill he stays in bed at the care home he is at all day as he is very frail. No one is telling me his daughter hiw far on thd csncer is.I was told yesterday ge was bleeding and had mucous passing through him.who fo I go to ti find out more about his condition as I know its patient confidentuality. So the Dr won't tell me anything.