Hi - My wife was diagnosed with Leukemia 6 years ago - She had a stem cell transplant and I am happy to say is cancer free.
We have also been lucky enough to become pregnant through Egg Donor IVF - She is 5 months along and all is looking fine.
For context I am British and my wife is American but we live in Doha, Qatar and have done for many years. The hospital system here is very good and went a long way to saving my wifes life with early detection and treatment of her cancer. We eventually had the stem cell transplant in Atlanta, Georgia in the US as it was advised this was the best place. However, we are now living back here full time and although the system for care here is good the communication and admin / organisation is quite frustrating.
They have free national health care for residents as well as private clinics everywhere - Prices range massively.
We cannot get great Insurance that will cover what we need due to her previous diagnosis - They say 10 years has to pass. Therefore we know we will have to pay out of pocket.
We have been referred to a couple of satelitte hospitals by the national system which have great facilities and reviews for childbirth. However, even after being referred by these places, who are well aware of her previous ailments, we keep getting told that she cannot give birth due to being "HIGH RISK".
These words "HIGH RISK" keep getting thrown at us but we never get a full explanation as to what this actually means. the outcome is that she will only be allowed to give birth in the main hospital which is far from ideal and not acceptable to us or the private clinics which obviously will be a large financial burden.
Does "High Risk" pertain to my wife or the baby or the pregnancy and why would certain hospitals not allow us to give birth there. Is this just something that will be on her records for ever more and hinder things in the future.
It would be great to know the actual reasons so that possibly we can speak to her cancer Doctors here and get a special referral to be able to use these other locations.
We just would like to know if those 2 words still mean anything that we need to be aware of or cautious of or if they are there just to protect the hospital / insurance company etc???
Your help would be much appreciated.