Hi there 

I'm in a situation right now where both of my parents have cancer and I don't know if it's a subconscious thing but every symptom I have I google it and it's stressing me out beyond belief. 
 

I have had a funny noise when I breathe out deeply for some time it's on and off and I feel like I'm not getting enough air when I breathe in (when I breathe out hard it's like a really deep husky wheezy noise) and when I cough it's obvious and it makes me cough so much I'm almost heaving (booking doc appt for this week). I also noticed some swelling on my groin lymphnodes (I'm sure? At least it looks different to usual). I have also been seeing so many videos on tiktok about skin cancer and moles and I have a mole that's diff colours with a rough edge but it's been like that for as long as I can Remeber. 
 

I am so stressed I don't know if any of the above is actually serious or I'm just so stressed with my personal life that I'm overthinking these things, the cough is most concerning as it's effecting me daily but I also had a pretty horrible flu just after Xmas, however it's a dry cough and this wheezy breathing out thing seems to have been on and off for a bit (could b allergies I guess).
 

Is anyone else going through anything similar? How do I try and not stress myself prior to the docs appt? I'm not sleeping well as it is :( 

thanks