Hi Vic,

So it sounds like your test came back normal? Tha'ts good. If you are still feeling some discomfort, go back to the doctor and let them know what's bothering you. The problem with health anxiety is that it magnifies every twinge, ache and gurgle we have (believe me, I know!). I have found the best way to get past this kind of anxiety is to write down my concerns, go over them one by one with my doctor, ask questions if I have them. You can also get a second opinion, that can help too. For me, I eventually decided I had to believe what they told me (that everything was normal). Once I did that, a lot of my "symptoms" went away. I have been seeing a therapist, too, he has given me good suggestions/coping tools, like if something lasts more than 2 weeks, then go back. Does this make sense? I hope you feel better soon.

Laura xx (cervical cancer survivor)

p.s. Make sure you write down what the doctors say/how they answer your questions. Keep it in a notebook so you can read it later, if you feel apprehensive.

I looked up Cervical Ectropion: 

"The condition is usually only visible during a doctor’s examination. It can sometimes cause irregular bleeding after sex and increased discharge between menstrual cycles. Cervical erosion doesn’t always come with symptoms, however. It’s a common finding during routine pelvic exams. If you do have ongoing, troublesome symptoms — such as mucus discharge, bleeding, or pain during or after sex — talk with a doctor about your treatment options.

The main treatment is cauterization of the area, which can help prevent abnormal discharge and bleeding. This can be accomplished using heat (diathermy), cold (cryotherapy), or silver nitrate."

Of course I am not a doctor, but if your smear is normal that's a good thing! Mine was not, it was abnormal and really bad. Why don't you give it some time, may a week or so, and if you are still having issues, set up another appointment. 

You got this, girl!

Laura xx

Hello and thanks for your post,

I am sorry to hear about your situation and your dad.

Cervical erosion is a very common finding and as I am sure your GP told you is not linked to cervical cancer. You may find it helpful to read the information written by Jo's Trust here

If you are still having symptoms I would get in touch with your GP as you may need another course of antibiotics if the bacterial vaginosis has not cleared up.

You may also find it helpful to look at the NHS website on health anxiety. There is a link called 'Every Mind matters' which you can see here

The NHS has more information here

I am sorry to hear about your dad's cancer. Hospices are wonderful places offering help and support for families and their relatives so hopefully he is being made comfortable whilst he is there.

if you feel that it would be helpful to chat through any of this with one of the nurses on the helpline then you are very welcome to give us a ring. Our number is Freephone 0808 800 4040 and we are here Monday to Friday 9am to 5pm.

All the Very Best,

Catherine