Can anyone advise how I help best support my husband who seems to be in denial that he may have cancer. No official diagnosis as yet. He's had a scan and there's a mass in his abdomen. He's lost a lot of weight and has a borderline low white cell count. Thing is he won't chase anything up as I think he's in denial bless him now thinking it's just stress. All he's had is the scan and no results yet. He's supposed to have been on a 2ww but has no named consultant or hospital contact and only the scan. He's asked me to sort access to medical notes online which I have so can see no results back yet but he feels there's no urgency to chase things and won't even use the c word! I know it's his decision how to deal with all this but I'm so scared