Stsge 3 cancer but its spread? Confused

Hi everyone im really confused and wondering if anyone can help. My mother in law has stage 3 cervical cancer its massive 15 cm by 10 by 12 its spread to the top of the liver she is getting blood clots in her legs and alot of swelling in her stomach she is getting drained about once a week due to the rapid fluid build up. From what ive read if a cancer has spread its stage 4 but they are saying its stage 3. I dont understand . Also the info says that if she us getting swelling shd only had a few months left so why are they planning her surgery in January.. Heads all over the place at the minute. 

 

  • Hi clare

    I'm sorry to hear about your mum in law. You have posted in the ask the nurses section of the forum and the nurses are only available Monday to Friday, so you may wish to try also making a post in another section, for example "newly diagnosed" or "living with cancer" unless you are specifically looking only for advice from a nurse. x

  • Hello there and thanks for posting

    I am sorry to hear about your mother in laws situation, this must be a difficult time for all the family.

    I'm afraid as we are not directly involved in any patients care on here it can be tricky to work out what may be going on and what may or may not happen next.

    We have information about the stages of cervical cancer here. As you say if the cancer has definitely spread to the liver or another organ it is usually stage 4 disease, but this is something to get checked out directly by the team involved in her care.

    Patients often get assigned a specialist nurse so if your mother in law has one of these they are worth contacting to ask more questions about the stage and treatment plan, if not then ask to speak to one of the doctors involved.

    I hope you find out more soon so you get a better understanding about what the future may look like.

    Please get back if it is useful to you or if you prefer give us a call on 0808 800 4040 and we can talk things through, we're here monday-friday 9-5.

    Best wishes

    Naomi