Should I have asked questions?

On weds of this week I had a mouth/throat Biopsy after an appointment prior at hospital after a referral from my dentist around 5 weeks ago now. I have a rubbish autoimmune system and so am used to having regular mouth ulcers which although unpleasant I have never really taken notice of. The biopsy was tricky as the area was right at the back of my mouth on the fleshy bit before my throat under my tongue. Two injections and some discomfort and then after stitches it was done. But I think I was too shaken to ask when offered the chance. I think he implied that at least the hospital is brilliant with knowledge and treatment. But I don't know if he meant should it be cancer or if he thought it was I haven't been able to eat properly since and it's uncomfortable to swallow. Not sure what to think as made the mistake of googling mouth/throat cancer and I have up to two weeks to wait for results although he has made an appointment with the hospital as a follow up regardless. I'm and 56 a mother of 2 kids in their 20's now. But for the first time I am now feeling scared. I would like to think if I have throat  cancer  it is not the beginning of the end ? I don't drink or smoke ( although I did many years ago. Any advice to deal with this if it's bad news? 
Thank you ! 

  • Hello there

    I am sorry to hear you are in this time of waiting for test results and not knowing what the outcome will be. It is understandable to be experiencing some discomfort after the biopsy and do remember to take pain killers to help ease this if needed.

    Times like these are often unnerving and i'm afraid until you have your appointment no one can tell you much more.

    It is only the biopsy that can confirm what these abnormal areas are and even if cancer is suspected the doctors still need to wait for the biopsy to confirm exactly what it is. Try not to over think what may or may not have been implied in conversation until you have all the facts.

    Most people undergoing urgent tests won't go on to be diagnosed with a cancer and there still could be other causes for your symptoms, so take things one step at a time for now.

    Even when a cancer is confirmed there is usually treatment options available and a plan is made with the team involved moving forward. Often once a diagnosis is made and the patient knows what needs to be done that they feel much more in control of the situation but try not to dwell on this until you know what is the matter with you.

    Hopefully you will hear something soon but do get back in touch if you want to or if you prefer give us a call weekdays 9-5 on 0808 800 4040.

    Take care

    Naomi