Prostate cancer query

Hi there, 

Hope you're all very well :) I wonder if anyone might be able to help. My dear Grandpa was diagnosed with prostate cancer some years ago. He's had hormone therapy and has largely carried on life without much hindrance, (aside from the side effects of the hormones) and only very sporadic check-ups at the hospital. His PSA level had remained very low and he'd been doing brilliantly.

Last December we became aware he was being sent for scans and his treamtent had switched to chemo tablets, though he didn't come out and tell us, he just was suddenly going to the hospital more and taking tablets as well as having his hormone injections. We asked him about this and he said he'd started chemo tablets. He said his scan came back clear and has since said that at all of his (now very regular) check ups that his level is the lowest it could be. I have some concerns he's protecting my Grandma and the rest of the family, and may not be letting us know what's happening with his appointments or his treatment plan. Of course, that's absolutely his right and I wouldn't want to take that away from him, I also don't want him to be taking the burden on himself if anything has changed. He's become very tired recently (I think side effects of the chemo?) and rather emotional and I'm concerned he might need more support or more might be going on than he's saying.

From the reading I've done about chemotherapy for prostate cancer it appears that its likely to be prescribed if the cancer has spread but am not sure if that's always the case. It may be entirely impossible to say from this outline, and may change from person to person, but I wondered if there was any advice available?

(For info I read about chemo for prostate cancer on various cancer charity websites and medical/urology sites to try and get the most accurate info)

Thanks so much :)

  • Suggest you contact Prostate Cancer U.K. , great source of advice and information 

    0800 074 8383

  • Thanks so much for the reply, I really appreciate that :) I've been reading up on their website but will see if they offer this on there too. Thanks so much! :)

  • Hello CherryB and thanks for posting, 

    I am sorry to learn about your grandpa and can understand you wanting the best for him.

    In prostate cancer, chemotherapy is usually used in advanced disease, but the drugs most commonly prescribed come in injection form often given as an infusion into a vein, however a long course of steroid tablets may be given alongside the chemotherapy. 

    As you say, it is up to your grandpa what he wants the family to know, but some people are happy to potter along taking a 'so far so good approach' without asking too many questions from their doctors anyway. 

    I don't think there would be much harm in you pointing out to your grandpa that he seems to be more tired and doing a bit of gentle probing about how he is coping to find out  what support he has access to.

    It might help to call our helpline to talk things over. If you want to, our Freephone number is 0808 800 4040 and we are here from Monday to Friday 9-5. 

    Best wishes, 

    Julia