Hi ladies , so what it is ,around September 2021 I started having a lot of pain during sex and sometimes bleeding after sex , the sex was only every 4-6 weeks due to a long distance relationship hence why it was so long before I went to the doctor , anyway so 6 weeks around the end of January 2022 I started having vagina pain and cramping and every day since it's got worse and worse along with thick clumpy yellow stringy discharge which sometimes has streaks of bloody in it , I have lower back pain , a bloated stomach as of the last two weeks , my legs feel weak like jelly and have a lot of pains going down them and pain in my hips also , if I bend down/over I get stabbing pains in my vagina , I feel like I need to intimate all the time and the pain wakes me up in the night , I have no uti no pid no sti's I've been checked for all those things .... the pain is ruing my life and I feel SO tired always like I never get any sleep even though I do , it also hurt me to sit down especially when I sit up straight , I also feel breathless and dizzy all the time now 

I have had a smear on feb 22nd 2022 , the results are still not back 

i am due a c125 blood test (I think that's what it's called ) the one that looks for tumour markers on 21st match ( such a long weight 

Gynae ordered a pelvic ultrasound (trans vaginal) scan and all the scanned was my ovaries and my uterus ..... not even my cervix , I told them I think the issue is my cervix , they said well we aren't scanning your cervix !!! , I'm so confused about that   

I have a gynaecologist appointment but that's not until April 5th 2022 , it's just all so long and honestly I'm barely getting through my days I feel awful and I'm in so much pain , I had a clear ovary and clear uterus on the ultrasound .

i don't know whether to pay for a private pelvic MRI scan to check my cervix for a tumour /cancer , or even a CT , I have a son who is 13 and I'm a single mother and honestly I'm so worried , the pains has progressed to a 9 out of ten in my vagina /hips and going down my legs , also pain in my lower back and lower abdomen , also feels like their is something inbetween my legs like inside my vagina like a tampon sensation but I have no prolapse or anything, can especially feel it when I stand /walk . I also have a ongoing cough now , please can anybody help me /advise me Thankyou xxxxx