I had an unsuccessful smear test last year, we tried a few times but become unbearable the more tried, I was fully relaxed at first as I didn't expect it to hurt with being my first one so not being relaxed I didn't see was the issue as I was before I felt pain, I was told I am too tense there and it was too hard to do despite I tried through the pain a few times and still couldn't do it, since I have been scared and upset and anxious and it's made me never want to try again, I have been offered diazpan but I know that's not enough as it really hurt no matter how relaxed I could be, wondering if being put out is an option? As I'm just too anxious about it all now and I know I'll only be told again it can't be done.
