My husband aged 60 was diagnosed yesterday with rectum cancer. We possibly won't know the staging until the New Year. His tumour is 60mm.
He is very pragmatic and thinks a operation will resolve things. However I am aware from what I have read on here that he would need a colostomy. He once said to me that he would rather die than have one if ever needs be. I lost a young relative who refused to have one and a friend who had one and then had a reversal and died.
Could you enlighten me with positive news about the outcome of this type of cancer please. I have read about trials that are trying to prevent side effects of this type of surgery, e.g leakage that occurs of when parts of the rectum are cut and reconnecte in the bowel. Sometimes too much knowledge is a bad thing... I really want to be prepared for the appointment with the surgeon as apparently 'one size doesn't fit all'!
