ive got my appointment tomorrow at the breast clinic, I'm sure it's been asked before, but what can I expect to happen at the appointment. It says in the letter to expect the appointment to last 2-4hrs
I managed to sleep more than I thought I would last night.
Sorry to hear your Friday outcome. Far from ideal! But ... I totally get that having much more info has left you feeling much calmer. Hoping I will feel better come lunchtime today.
So ... As expected it is cancer. However and most importantly it's totally treatable
Grade 2. Her 2 Neg apparently. So hormone tablet treatable which is apparently a good thing?!?!?
I have to make a decision within the week as to lumpectomy or mastectomy. It's my choice. It's 5cm's so a big bit of boob will go. But I think I may try to hang on to as much of my own boob as possible to start with.
Op in about 4 weeks, followed by radiation. Then if nothing found in lymph's after op that will be it apart from hormone tablets.
If lymphs concerning then chemo will be up for discussion.
I'm ok. I think?!?!? So much more in control now which I needed. This forum has definitely been a godsend too.
I am so sorrry to hear that you have just joined the 'cancer club' - not one that anyone really wants to join! It's amazing how much more in control you feel once you know what you are dealing with and, have a plan for the way forward.
I am so glad to hear that it is treatable and sincerely hope that your lymphs are clear after your op. It is a big decision to make. I have had both and they are both perfectly mangeable. It sounds as if you have a pretty positive attitude and, you will find that this will be a great help along your cancer journey
Thank you for your response. I have been so hideously scared and anxious for the past two weeks. I cannot quite explain the instant relief I felt when the lovely consultant said that it was 'treatable'. It was that that made me cry I was so grateful.
I have been assigned a nurse and she seems the perfect match. I'm not an overly serious person and try to laugh as much as possible. She is extremely down to Earth, not too 'fussy' emotionally if that makes sense? Happy to joke etc. Just what I need
She is going to call me on Friday to see how I'm doing once the reality has sunk in I think.
You are right, it's not an ideal club to find yourself in is it! I can think of other more desirable clubs But ... I am feeling positive. The consultant gave me no reasons not to feel that way this morning. I'm not going to tell my boys until closer to the surgery date. My eldest is smack bang in the middle of his exams. Fortunately my treatment plan doesn't begin for approx 4 weeks. Perfect timing for him
It is only natural to feel so worried and scared with so many unknowns around you. REgardless of the outcome, it becomes easier to cope with once you have set your goals and know where you're going. Crying is perfectly normal - it just shows how stressed you were whilst waiting for your results. I am delighted to hear that you feel your breast care nurse is the perfect match for you - it makes all the difference when you can turn to her any time you need help or advice.
It will be difficult to keep this from your sons for 4 weeks, but I can appreciate the difficulty with your eldest being in the middle of exams. My son was about the same age when I was diagnosed. He and my daughter, who is younger, are a great support to me. No, it's not an ideal club, but we don't get the choice, so it's all about getting on with it. I am glad that you are feeling positive, as this will also help you along your journey.
I agree about this forum. I found it a really great support when I was first diagnosed, which is why I'm still here. Try to keep yourself busy over the next few weeks, as this helps to pass the time. Do you have any hobbies or pastimes to interest you?
We are heading for the same destination, slightly different paths to get their x
im still smiling and remain positive, i received a call from the breast care specialist nurse today and I have my MRI on Monday 10th which is good, will discuss my results of that on 20th May at my oncology appointment and following some tests ie echo etc they confirm when my chemo will start ( as long as I have nothing show up on MRI, if they do I have to have further biopsies) and I have to have a marker put in my affected lymph node
So lovey to hear from you. Even though under such rubbish circumstances. I feel lucky that our paths have crossed
My breast care nurse is calling me on Friday to talk through the surgery options again. I didn't take much in today!
It's beyond comprehendible really isn't it? I find myself lost for words - that never really happens! But, like you, I'm determined to stay positive.
Pleaae please keep me updated with where you are. Can we message on here without being in the forum? No problem if not. Sometimes it just seems better to message just one person. Whatever though... We're in this together and we will be ok xxxx
