Overthinking biopsy results

Hello

I am in the horrible position of waiting for some biopsy results. 

I asked the nurse if she could give me a hint & she said no. I then asked if anyone was ever given results over the phone, I meant if they were benign etc. 

She said “no as then they’re on their own”. I’ve taken this as my results are bad so I wouldn’t be able to get phone results. 

I told her I was terrified & she said the nurses will be there. All this has made me so paranoid. Why would a nurse be there for my results?

I don’t know why I’m asking on here. Im so sick of this overthinking and anxiety. 

  • I am currently waiting for my 4th lot of biopsy results to hopefully finally confirm whether a rectal tumour is malignant or still at the pre cancerous stage (high grade dysplasia confirmed three times but all biopsies so far fallen short of confirming malignancy). Every time I get a phone call from the colorectal nursing team after the MDT meeting to tell me the position and give me an appointment at clinic to speak to the consultant in detail on next steps. The first thing I was asked by the nursing team was whether I wanted to know results over the phone or wait until clinic so I would say speak up and tell them how you want to be dealt with. You are the patient and it’s up to you. Hope you get a good result when it comes.