I hope the news is positive, if its cancer its curable. I've only told immediate family members, not extended. A few close friends, they've been helpful but tbh they don't really understand the full extent of what I'm going through and the emotions that I face everyday. It's hard, but like the ladies on the group have said it's the waiting which is the hardest. Once treatment plan is in action you'll feel more in control.
Also, the Macmillan nurses have been helpful. They've spoken to me a lot over the past couple of days regarding diagnosis. The waiting side of things etc..
I was the worst patient I was a nuisance to all of the team I asked every question and needed every answer I rang everyday chasing results I was a nag lol ️
I wouldn't feel guilty. I called two days in a row straight asking quetions aabout the scan, what they saw that was suspicious etc.. on the third day she stopped answering my calls. Lol. But I knew the day that the MDT were going to meet and that's the day I just sent a text asking if biopsy results had come through and that's when she called asking me to come in.
