Waiting for first appointment at breast clinic

Hi I'm new to this site. It looks a very supportive forum and I know will be better than my incessant googling. I'm aware many of you are much further along the journey. I have a sizeable lump in my right breast, I'm 48. My GP said she was hopeful it is a cyst as it felt circular but that she would keep her fingers crossed for me.  It's between the size of a walnut and lime so pretty big and at the bottom to outside of my breast. I'm obviously terrified that because of it's size if it is cancer it won't be good news. I'm finding the waiting absolutely unbearable and I'm struggling sleeping. Because of its size I find it really hard to not think about and it also feels very achy. 
My apointment is on the 21st December and I understand they will do biopsy and mammagram etc and then it will be around a week for results - depending on Christmas/ New Year.  At the moment I'm thinking of every possible worst case scenaro. I'm always a very pro active patient and often an advocate on behalf of family members and feel so helpless at the moment. In terms of questions to ask on the 21st any pointers would be appreciated. Also any top tips on how to switch off a very worried mind. Many thanks and sending much love to you all 

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    Hi KatPT,

    I just want to let you know that I shall be thinking of you tomorrow and hope that all turns out well for you.

    Please keep in touch and let us know how you get on. We are always here for you.

    Kind regards,

    Jolamine xx

  • Thanks for the lovely message Jolamine, very much needed right now. 
    I'll certainly keep you all updated either way.

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    Hi KatPT,

    I am keeping my fingers crossed for you.

    Kind regards,

    Jolamine xx

  • Hi Ladies. my doctor referred me to a breast clinic on the 10th after finding a lump in my left breast. Worried sick like everyone here. Can anyone explain the emergency two week referral to me please? I got a letter from the doctor to say I should phone the clinic for an apt if I havent heard from them today and when i did the lady on the phone complained about doctors putting this in their letters and that the two week referal wasnt that i would be seen within two weeks but that they would contact me within two weeks. Is this correct? She was very abrupt on the phone & I know its silly but she's really upset me with her manner. I guess i am proably just disappointed that i wont get an appointment this side of xmas. Wondering if i should contact my health insurer to see if i could get seen faster but my doctor did advise against this route & I was in such a confused state at the apt i didnt think to ask why.

  • Hi I hadn't received any appointment and I was seen by gp on 8th dec. when doctor sent my referral letter through there was a booking number and password so I went on nhs referrals and found my appointment date and time. So if u give that letter you might be able to find it. I think the reason your gp advised not going down other route is because when your in nhs system all the multi disciplinary teams are set uP already if anything abnormal found. If you go private as such you then have to get back into the system .  I know the wait is horrendous I'm going out of my Mind with anxiety and going on third 23rd dec at 11. Hope you can get appt sorted 

     

    hugs 

  • Thanks for the reply. I did login to that nhs referral site and it says the same there -  the clinic will contact me for an apt and if i dont hear from them by the 15th to call them. I think i'll try calling them again later and hopefully get to speak with a different person this time who might be more helpful. 

  • Good luck . All you want is a kind voice when your feeling like this and having someone being abrupt really doesn't help. Always here if u need a chat 

  • Hi everyone 

     

    I have just joined . Found round movable lump in left breast and got reffered and waiting.feeling pretty misserable with Xmas coming up ! I don't think I'd be able to enjoy it at all ! wishing everyone good luck with their appointments x

     

    Dom 
     

     

  • Glad you've joined this discussion too. Everybody been great on here 

  • Any updates with regard to your appointment this morning .