Diagnosed with tongue cancer today

Hello , I'm 30 years old, have a family of 2 little children. I've had an ulcer on my tongue for about 7 months now (it was dysplasia this time last year) I was diagnosed with T1 tongue cancer today. I have to have 1/3 of my tongue cut out and possibly reconstruction. With a neck dissection. I am terrified, if anyone has any tips or happy stories I'd love some reassurance or someone to talk to.

 

im sad that we're all here to talk about this to be honest.