The good and the bad

Hi peeps

I have recently been diagnosed with breast cancer. Taking the excellent advice on this website I pretty much started by taking it one day at a time. This does indeed help. 

I thought to share the good and the bad and would love to hear anyone else's should they wish to share.

Today I had both a good and a bad moment. I received 2 letters in the post.

The first was from the hosp confirming my op date (my bad moment) cos my stomach dropped and I had that now familiar feeling of anxiousness take hold for a moment but shook it off cos I know it is needed. 

The good - my 2nd letter - as if... a tax rebate - boom  . Not half put a much needed smile on my face . Reckon a my treat family meal is in order.

Eeee it's the little things ain't it. 

Take care peeps 

Sandra x ️X

 

  • Hi marlyn glad you doing OK with treatment, had some good news today car sailed right through its test, OK for another year,. Best wishes. 

    Billy 

  • Oh Dizzle...

    It's going to be a hard couple of days ... but I've got everything crossed hunny ... hold on ... wer all behind you ... thinking of you ... and your little one ...  chrissie xx

  • Hi Dizzle

    Im hoping everything will turns out well . My thoughts are with you.

    Virtual hand squeeze to you from me.

    Sundial

  • Ah lovely t hear from u Marlyn. I remember it well... was half a day for me. Used to time how long from I to dressing room, treatment nd back out dressed was on average 15 mins. The rest was travel nd waiting to be called lol.

    u got many more sessions left? X

  • Bless... try nd remember it’s nothing till it’s something. I know .... it will of course be playing on your mind. ️

    Deep breaths lass...hold your loved ones close and know we are here if you need us. Tightest of hugs sent your way lass ️X ️

     

  • Dizzle we are all with you. I have a feeling that you will be fine and they are just being extra cautious. So sorry you have this anxiety. We are all so aware of any symptoms we have but I have my fingers crossed for you. Please let us know xx

  • Morning peeps 

    early post cos just back from walking dog ( I’d normally b still in bed lol).

    hope you slept ok dizzel .... thinking of you ️

    Bad: - None

    good :- hoping walk was not a dream nd my feet weren’t twitching in my sleep like the dogs does;)

    lovely quiet walk down woods with dog .. passed no one else.

    time for cuppa methinks then wait for the clan t pop by as they head off - for quick kiss nd cuddles from lil ones. 

    have as good a day as you can peeps x

  • Morning everyone,

    Sandra....was broken sleep full of nightmare about dying but I kind of knew it was gonna happen. Baby must have sensed something as he was having a rave in there about 3am lol. He gets the hiccups now too so obviously developing more bless him.

    Thank you for everyone else's kind words. Made me feel better as always. Jamie took the night off work as didnt wanna leave me but now I've got over the shock of hearing the C word again I've calmed down and now positive dizzle is back. It's more than likely nothing, but if if is I'm ready for another fight. Too much to live for!

    Jamie's taking me out for breakfast in a bit then I'm taking grace shopping for a summer wardrobe in town this afternoon then out for dinner. 

    Sun is shining too :-)

    Have a lovely day everyone xx

  • Good morning drizzel, as you say lovely day to everyone, plenty of weeds growing up every where again, never mind grass is cut easy day hopefully, might have fish and chips for dinner, nice and fattening. Hope you are all well, God bless you all. especially bump. 

    Billy

    P.s had a lay in this morning up at 6.30. 

  • Ah that’s brill dizzel lovely to hear you are being spoilt. 

    Gotta admit I don’t think it’s owt either... got everything crossed anyway x

    enjoy lass ️ X