My partner was told he had grade 3 squamous cell bladder cancer which had spread to prostate lymph nodes had surgery to remove bladder prostate and lymph nodes in February just returned to hospital for blood tests which then told us high calcium level in blood and so had ct scan now been told it’s gone into pelvic bones in his bones in legs and lungs been told at the most got 12 months to live don’t know how to deal with this
