Hi all so sorry I'm gonna moan on here. Was diognosed last Oct I've had the lumpectomy and sentinel lymph node removed waited 4 weeks for results which weren't what I expected. Its spread to the lymph nodes so penciled in for surgery to remove them in February. I just feel so out of control of everything the waiting the plan for after surgery hasn't been told to me feel like I'm just a statistic not a person.do they let you be involved with treatment plans or do I just sit back and take whatever they offer. Sorry for this guys but today is a really  bad day in my head.