My husband has cancer is going down very fast

Hi my husband took I’ll 24 January this year doctor took blood ure samples got X-ray done got told to day cancer all over him he was 9 stone then now 5 stone not very well is going down very fast got morphine cancer nurses are to start coming in from next week we are tell the family tomorrow this is very hard to  tell you he never said to anyone he was not feeling great till he could no eat anything I have tried hard to get him to go and see doctor but won’t go till it’s to late now they can’t do anything thing for him just help with the pain I am hurting very much how do you carry on not great help me please not great with this.

  • Hi thanks he’s got the sickness tablets but not working for him he just drink water today we got milk shake suplmen for him to help was fine but not now going on a drippy now with fluids and morphine drip to he keeps on dreaming ur baby the Young’s daughter is lost she’s 25 but not married I thank that’s what it’s about it’s just sheer and her pug dog she does not stay at home I just can’t get him to stop worrying about her hard to see him like that he’s asked son to come the day he won’t to talk to him just I think he’s giving up now not great so please have all the time you can with your dad ok hopefully you will have something great time together still and stay strong hugs xxxx

  • Oh no, hopefully the nurses will be able to Sort out his sickness when they come later. My dad hasn't had any sickness so far but they added in anti sickness tablets with all his other meds so maybe his are working I don't know. When you say "dreaming" is he hallucinating? My dad did a lot of that when he was on morphine. They've put him on oxycodone and something else now and he's a lot better but before he kept hallucinating and panicking about my girls I think. He'd say he could hear them outside playing by the road and Would ask me to go out and tell them to get off the road etc... Then he'd say that they hadn't come in to see him, things like that. 

    I'm with my dad every day now. I take my girls to school then I go straight over and spend the day at my parents house. I pick the girls up from school and depending on how dad is Ill either stay home or go back with him. My mum is ill too so I'm looking after both of them, as best I can anyway. I wish I could have slept last night, I'm sure you do too. I think I might hop in the bath and wash my hair since everything is quiet at the moment! Xxx

  • Hi just to tell you My husband pass away 26 February thank you all very much talk later xxx

  • Hi just to tell you my husband passed away on 26 February thank you talk later xxx

  • [@Fiona57]‍ 

    Oh no, Fiona I am so so sorry. I don't know what to say. Big big big hugs and lots of love.

  • So sorry to hear about your husband x