Sending you heartfelt sympathy. My sister was given 6 months to a year, she died 6 months to the day later. she was 39.  It gave us time to prepare her little girl who was 7,  time to make memories and time to talk. At such a tragic time we felt very lucky to have the privilege to be able to do that. 

Hi,

my partner has cancer in his bones in his back and has been given 12 months after beating cancer 2 years ago. I am so in shock and don't really know how to cope with it all, iv been really strong so far but as I am only 22 everyone keeps asking if I'm okay and not really giving me any time to myself which makes me worse! Suppose we have to be strong for them. Sending all my love xx 

Hey, you know it's OK to say how you feel, it's OK to ask for a bit of space, a bit of me time to help you cope. No one will be offended, I think unless you have been through all the emotions that go with dealing with cancer you just don't know what to say/do to help.

I lost my Sister 2 yrs ago, she was 39 and I had a hysterectomy a week ago because I had stage 1 cancer, so I understand exactly how you are feeling. 

Sending you lots of positive vibes.

Good to hear such a positive attitude. I've been given six to nine months and am only 43. Sometimes I forget I'm even ill, until the pain sets in, then I remember. Guess life's what you make of it , whether you're ill or not. Xx

Hi, so sorry to hear about your husband. I myself was given 6/9 months last month. Take heart, he'll still hopefully have good moments like I do, especially with your love and support. Try to do anything you can together. I'm not sure of his pain levels but maybe he can still get out and about sometimes. I haven't got a bucket list but I am trying to do as many special things as possible. Create some special memories, that's what I'm trying to do for my loved ones. Many people have said to me that oncologists can get things wrong, so just keep hoping. Take care. Xx