So sorry to hear your sad news. Thinking of you. love and hugs xx

I don't know anyone, patient of professional, who has a good word to say about the 111 service. It was brought in to replace the local GP out of hours and the national NHS Direct services, but at cost less than either of the original services. Neither service was ever that brilliant, but both it seems were better than 111. 

Hi Petra,

I offer my sincere condolences on the loss of your husband. You have done well by him to fulfil all his wishes about treatment and remaining at home. This cannot have been easy for you. There is never a good time to lose a loved one, but to lose him so close to Christmas must be particularly hard for you. It is so difficult to cope with all that you have to, whilst there is so much overt joy around you.

I lost my mum to secondary breast cancer many years ago. We tried to keep her at home, but eventually she had to go into a hospice. She was only there for 3 days, but it was the biggest mistake we made with her throughout her cancer journey. The treatment she received was abominable.

Don’t forget that we are always here if you want to talk during the days ahead.

Kind regards,

Jolamine xx

Hi Monica

My mother and I are in the same situation as you.  Dad is at home and slowly disappearing in front of us. I agree with your sentiments' it is heart-breaking. Cancer is cruel.  I can only say that my thoughts are with you all. xx Sarah

HI Petra

I am so sorry for you. Mum and I are in a similar situation with Dad. He does not want people fussing, no hospice, just to stay at home where he is warm and comfortable.  Later, when the anguish subsides, you will take comfort from the fact that his wishes were fulfilled.  It is always hard for those left behind.  Our thoughts and best wishes are with you at this sad time.  Sarah x

Thank you. xx