Post treatment support

Hello!

I'm posting on behalf of my Dad who is coming to the end of his 6 week radiotherapy treatment for throat cancer. He was hospitalised earlier this week as the side effects are getting pretty bad. He's unable to eat anything other than very little amounts of ensure & tries his best with yoghurt, but finds eating and drinking extremely difficult. As a result he's physically weak due to weight loss, mentally out of it and generally having a bad time.

Prior to coming into hospital he was living on a sofa bed at his ex-wifes house alongside their autistic son (my step brother) - long story short, he became technically homeless a couple of years ago and he's been sofa surfing ever since but this is where he's been staying frequently. 

Its been difficult for them throughout his treatment and I feel he's in need of greater care, but I'm struggling to find concrete information on whats available. I'm currently living at my mums whilst saving for a deposit, otherwise I'd house and look after him but this isn't a possibility right now.

I need some pointers on where to go - can I get in touch with the council on his behalf to try and get accommodation through them? Would the hospital keep him post treatment? Are hospice services available that can help?

I'm planning on going to Maggies tomorrow to speak with them, but I thought this could be a good place to start.

Thank you.

  • Welcome to Cancer Chat, floyc, and thank you for posting on behalf of your dad.

    It sounds like a very difficult time for both of you, especially with the side effects of the radiotherapy becoming so challenging and the uncertainty around his living situation.

    Regarding accommodation and practical support, the local council may be able to offer advice about housing options, particularly if someone is unwell and does not have stable accommodation. You may be able to contact them on your dad’s behalf to explain the situation and ask what support might be available.

    You might also find it helpful to look at the Citizens Advice information for people who are sick or disabled and their carers, which explains the types of benefits and support that may be available.

    Hopefully other members of the forum who have supported a loved one through head and neck cancer treatment, or who have had to navigate similar practical concerns, will come along soon to share their experiences. In relation to the difficulties your dad is having with eating, there is also a page on our website about managing diet problems during cancer treatment which you might find useful.

    I hope that speaking with Maggie’s gives you some helpful guidance, and that your dad is able to get the support he needs during this difficult time.

    Last but not least, please remember we’re here for you whenever you need a chat.

    Best wishes to you and your dad,

    Renata, Cancer Chat Moderator