Hi iv just bn told my mum has Lung Cancer T4 I'm really struggling at the moment and feel like I cant breathe.

I've had nearly a month in & out of hospital been awful .She is adamant she is not going back in so I'm caring for her at her home .She refused carers in but iv said i need them to help me so come morn & teatime .Iv bn staying overnight for weeks but i can not sleep at all with the oxygen tank noise & sleeping on a sofa so i crumbled yesterday had to come home to my bed & home .Still waiting on the key safe & pendant to wear if its an emergency .

She is wanting me at her home all day & I cant, this is not at the stage where pain relief and sleeping all the time & not eating is.

Just need some advice, love her so much but it's hard at the minute.

Any advice would be helpful

Thank you