Living with Stage 4 Breast Cancer.

Hi there. I am wondering if there's anyone out there who, like me, is living with Stage 4 breast cancer?

It would be good to be in contact with other people who are living with this disease.

In July 2011 I was diagnosed with Invasive Ductal Carcinoma which was already widespread throughout both lungs and liver.

I would be interested to talk to anyone else who finds themselves in a similar position and who, despite the difficult prognosis, is determined to keep as fit as possible, access all medical treatment and eat well.

Looking forward to hearing from you,

Mary

  • Hi Billy,

    You are very good with words and always explain things effectively. And of course I don't mind, I feel honoured that you think of me. And it is important for me to feel I can give a little back as I feel I have been very lucky.

    Yes, the wait is pretty terrifying, but I am becoming used to it now.

    I'm pleased your scooter is good, but hope there are people close to come and rescue you if you get stuck! 

    Love Mary

    xxxx

  • Hi Billy, hi all,

    My results were good again. A month was such a long wait! Yay! We're celebrating here!

    But the doctor has ordered a head CT scan because I've been dizzy recently. I hope it will turn out to be an old ear problem, but yes another scan, and another long wait. On balance though I think I'd rather know what's going on than not.

    So, on we go ;)

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  • Congratulations on scan being ok , really hope other problem is ears ,.

    Hope you don't celebrate to much and get a terrible headache .

    Thinking of you know you keep positive same as me.    Were as good as can be,im still shopping on scooter with trailer , keep warm and safe ,you never know with this covid it keeps changing .     Im saving up for next fuel bill, being on safe side, bill's keep coming in and going up .

    Love Billy xxxx.   

     

     

     

     

  • So so pleased for you Mare! Wonderful news! This has made my day :love:

    Long may it continue xxx

    (Sorry Billygoat I meant to reply to Mare)

  • Hello Billy, Annette, everyone,

    The hospital rang ( I told them I had struggled with the month wait recently for my other CT scan of my insides). 

    Good news!!!

    Brain scan perfectly normal in every way. Not sure if they found a brain though :laugh::laugh::laugh:

    But seriously, living with the uncertainty of secondary cancer is a huge challenge for the emotions isn't it?! :cry:

    So relieved. It gives me another window for a bit, and another chance to get on top of a better, healthier lifestyle again.

    Onwards and upwards :cool::wink::happy:

    Love to you all,

    Mary

    xxx

  • Dear Mary really glad all clear on scan, and congratulations .

    Hope you have meny meny more.

    Hope your diet is going well .

    Take care keep safe and positive .

    Love Billy xxxx

  • Hello Mary 

    I have just joined here today and read your story and post it's abs fantastic.

    I'm Helen (49) and have been diagnosed with Breast Cancer in November 2,  I had a right breast mastectomy in late November 21.  After having a number of scans (four) as I had apparently confused them they originally thought I was Stage 3 however I am stage 4 Breast Cancer mets to the bone (in its earliest form). 

    I have sent you a friend request and wondered if you could send me the link to your web page and any helpful hints/tips on diet, nutrition and excercise that have worked for you. 

    I am on hormonal and biological therapies with a progress scan due in a few weeks. 

    I have started reading/researching as I believe all help is necessary in fighting cancer. 

    Best

    Helen

     

  • Hello Helen,

    I have replied to you privately.

    It does sound like you have an excellent outlook which will stand you in good stead I am sure. I look forward to chatting to you soon.

    All the best,

    Mary

    :happy:

  • Oh and, nope. The diet is not going well...I have no willpower at the moment whatsoever....

    :sad: