Doctor found lump in my breast

Hi everyone:)

im Clare and I started with a sharp pain in my breast last Thursday, thought my period would start soon so didn’t think too much about it( although I never get breast pain ). I got ready for bed and there was a red type mark where the pain had been, thought nothing of it. Friday came round and I had what appeared to be a pale bruise which had grown overnight along with more pain and a bit of swelling. By the time I got to see the doctor the following Wednesday I noticed the rash ( warm to touch ) would come and go but the pain and swelling was getting bigger. The doctor said I had an infection but if the antibiotics didn’t work within 24 hours to phone up and she would do a scan. I left it an extra day and although my symptoms haven’t worsened they didn’t improve either. So the doctor told me to come in as she suspected it could’ve been an abscess. She performed a breast exam on me ( as I winced through the pain ) and said she didn’t believe I had an abscess and she wasn’t too convinced I had an infection ( though the swelling was very hard ) she did tell me she found a lump which she was keen to sort out. So I’m on an urgent referral, but I can only feel how hard my breast is, I can’t feel a lump. It’s scared me no end as I keep looking at my two year old gorgeous little boy and can barely keep the tears back as he would never remember me or know how much I love him, if indeed it did turn out to be cancer. 

I find all you ladies so inspiring to be able to get through this and be strong for your families 

I would love some help or advice as I’m not sure how to cope waiting for this referral 

 

many thanks lovely people

  • Hey pumpkin,

    good to hear from you. More waiting then, got everything crossed for you, let us know your results? 

    Im not doing too bad, had second round of chemo, seems it knocks me back for a week then I begin to rally again. Today is a good day....so I hold on to the good ones.... also, next round of chemo means I'm half way through......boy does that sound good! 

    Take care.......xxxxx

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    Hi Clare,

    Great to get your update, although I wish you were further forward with your diagnosis. Poor you, still trying to find out the cause of all this. You must be finding it pretty tiring going back and forth to the hospital every weekday? It's no wonder you are sleeping so much throughout the day. How do you sleep at night?

    I got the result of the two suspect melanomas on my face and leg on Monday and, can still hardly believe the results - both were completely clear. I have been floating on Cloud Nine all week.

    I sincerely hope that you get your results soon and, can start to move forward.

    Kind regards,
    Jolamine xx

  • Hi Marlyn great to hear back from you!

    yes more waiting but I’m not awake long enough to think about it!!

    wow I’ve missed so much! Can’t believe you are nearly half way through!! That’s amazing!

    i wrote a poem a while ago and think this extract is appropriate now 

    ‘life is weird, we don’t know why

    sometimes we laugh, sometimes we cry

    feel every low but we miss the highs’

    so it is important to hold onto the good days! 

    (Sorry to force a bit of poetry on you!)think I’m going crazy!! 

    Keep us infomered how you go on 

    xxxx

  • Hi jolomine

    it is tiring and sometimes you wait and wait and are only in there 5 minutes tops! I sleep all through the night too! 

    That is absolutely fabulous news I bet you can’t believe it!! I’m really genuinely very happy for you!!

    you should go on a mini break to celebrate!

    keep in touch

    warm regards

    clare

     

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    Hi Clare,

    It doesn't really matter how long you are in for. It is getting up every day and having to travel to and from hospital for those few minutes. I don't think that it would be much worse if you were there for a few hours every day. I am glad to hear that you are sleeping well at night too - that's something that I don't do - I've always been a night owl!

    We didn't get away last year because my hubby was diagnosed with heart failure and, hasn't been keeping well at all. We also lost both of my parents-in-law within the last 4 months, so last year was really a lost year. We are hoping to get away in between our own hospital visits, once we've got my father-in-law's estate sorted - We can hardly wait.

    Kind regards,

    Jolamine xx